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Post by Ellιє on Nov 12, 2013 21:13:23 GMT -5
;D
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Post by Assassin Nico on Nov 12, 2013 21:16:01 GMT -5
Imma guess your age now
15-16?
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Post by Ellιє on Nov 12, 2013 21:23:10 GMT -5
You were closer then I was xD I'm 14.
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Post by Lilac on Nov 12, 2013 21:24:05 GMT -5
I'm sorry that I left. I just... Couldn't deal with the stress of everyone fighting. And Toby hurt me. I wanted to believe it wasn't even her, that it was someone else.
I went back to the Skype chat. Don't know how long it will take me to get back on the thread.
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Post by Fading Dawn on Nov 12, 2013 23:13:13 GMT -5
Nic. Are you kidding? How many times have I told you guys that I love you all? OF COURSE I CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION.
I've got NO idea who Justin is or what he did. That's why I used short replies.
And Quies and Eises and I pointed out that Mari is most certainly NOT part of the "cussing group." We said that quite a few times.
Sorry for insulting you guys, but I'm not compromising my position. We need to clean up the Skype chat a bit and make it fun for all of us.
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Post by Fading Dawn on Nov 12, 2013 23:14:24 GMT -5
ay ay ay that sounded harsh
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Post by Shad on Nov 13, 2013 0:33:23 GMT -5
I see... Well, Gibbs and Mari shouldn't have been put in there, that's for sure. Raz, I think, was just having some fun though. Like we all do. Sometimes. mainly just wanted to say that a) Mari wasn't really grouped with them, in fact we told her a few times she didn't do anything wrong b) Raz and your's sense of fun is way out of a lot of people's comfort zone, that's why i got mad, i felt like you guys should have realized that.
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Post by Shad on Nov 13, 2013 0:53:12 GMT -5
Nic. Are you kidding? How many times have I told you guys that I love you all? OF COURSE I CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION. I've got NO idea who Justin is or what he did. That's why I used short replies. And Quies and Eises and I pointed out that Mari is most certainly NOT part of the "cussing group." We said that quite a few times. Sorry for insulting you guys, but I'm not compromising my position. We need to clean up the Skype chat a bit and make it fun for all of us. So basically, in the end, have to side with Toby here (and this isn't just me blindly defending my forum sis, honestly agree). i thought she made it very clear that she still values you guys' opinions, but it seemed to her (and me) you guys weren't listening to her's, so yeah, she was starting to get offended. And I know she hated having to yell at you guys, but she honestly felt like she had no other choice. You must see that from her perspective, she has asked several times in the past (and I mean months ago, not a couple weeks or something) nicely but it seemed to her you guys were just ignoring. Anyways, what 'm trying to get at here, is that you need to see this from Toby's perspective. To her, she asked nicely several times, nobody seemed to listen, and she was tired of having to avoid her own skype chat because of it, and she finally decided she needed to put her foot down. You do have to remember, at the end of the day it IS her chat room. Toby loves us all, and that's the problem: she saw a lot of people not being able to have fun at the skype chat anymore, and so she was standing up for them. That's all she was doing. Yes, Mari, I'm not sure why you keep thinking you're in trouble...the only thing we labeled you as was a frequent skyper, but that doesn't mean we thought you were trouble. ^^ Look, what Toby is trying to say here is that the chat needs to be fun for EVERYONE, and not just centered around people who need to vent and rant through cussing. The key word is EVERYONE. And I think that's what bit us the most, was that you guys didn't seem to be even thinking about how your behavior might affect others. You just need to remember that a LOT of us don't enjoy hearing buckets of profanity or reading m-rated discussions, or pretty constant ranting. I know it may not seem like you guys cuss/rant a lot, but lurk a LOT on the skype calls, and, well...from an outsider's perspective, I think you guys do it a lot more than you might think. We're not saying you can't vent/cuss at ALL. Letting off real-life steam every once and awhile is fine, and occasional, milkd cussing is tolerated. But constant ranting, and hearing the f-word a lot, gets very tiresome. You get where I'm coming from? Bottom line is, the skype chat/boards were NEVER meant to be a therapists office, but that's what they've become. I get a lot of you are going through a hard time, but...I'll just say this bluntly, and I don't mean offense, but you're kind of impressing it upon the rest of us...most of us come on these places to get AWAY from stress, not hear people complain/vent their own troubles. As I said, we don't mind occasionally lending a shoulder to cry on or lending an ear, but it just get tiresome after constant, and after awhile, these places aren't pushing away our stresses, it's just piling other's on top.
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Post by Fading Dawn on Nov 13, 2013 10:41:06 GMT -5
Nic. Are you kidding? How many times have I told you guys that I love you all? OF COURSE I CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION. I've got NO idea who Justin is or what he did. That's why I used short replies. And Quies and Eises and I pointed out that Mari is most certainly NOT part of the "cussing group." We said that quite a few times. Sorry for insulting you guys, but I'm not compromising my position. We need to clean up the Skype chat a bit and make it fun for all of us. So basically, in the end, have to side with Toby here (and this isn't just me blindly defending my forum sis, honestly agree). i thought she made it very clear that she still values you guys' opinions, but it seemed to her (and me) you guys weren't listening to her's, so yeah, she was starting to get offended. And I know she hated having to yell at you guys, but she honestly felt like she had no other choice. You must see that from her perspective, she has asked several times in the past (and I mean months ago, not a couple weeks or something) nicely but it seemed to her you guys were just ignoring. Anyways, what 'm trying to get at here, is that you need to see this from Toby's perspective. To her, she asked nicely several times, nobody seemed to listen, and she was tired of having to avoid her own skype chat because of it, and she finally decided she needed to put her foot down. You do have to remember, at the end of the day it IS her chat room. Toby loves us all, and that's the problem: she saw a lot of people not being able to have fun at the skype chat anymore, and so she was standing up for them. That's all she was doing. Yes, Mari, I'm not sure why you keep thinking you're in trouble...the only thing we labeled you as was a frequent skyper, but that doesn't mean we thought you were trouble. ^^ Look, what Toby is trying to say here is that the chat needs to be fun for EVERYONE, and not just centered around people who need to vent and rant through cussing. The key word is EVERYONE. And I think that's what bit us the most, was that you guys didn't seem to be even thinking about how your behavior might affect others. You just need to remember that a LOT of us don't enjoy hearing buckets of profanity or reading m-rated discussions, or pretty constant ranting. I know it may not seem like you guys cuss/rant a lot, but lurk a LOT on the skype calls, and, well...from an outsider's perspective, I think you guys do it a lot more than you might think. We're not saying you can't vent/cuss at ALL. Letting off real-life steam every once and awhile is fine, and occasional, milkd cussing is tolerated. But constant ranting, and hearing the f-word a lot, gets very tiresome. You get where I'm coming from? Bottom line is, the skype chat/boards were NEVER meant to be a therapists office, but that's what they've become. I get a lot of you are going through a hard time, but...I'll just say this bluntly, and I don't mean offense, but you're kind of impressing it upon the rest of us...most of us come on these places to get AWAY from stress, not hear people complain/vent their own troubles. As I said, we don't mind occasionally lending a shoulder to cry on or lending an ear, but it just get tiresome after constant, and after awhile, these places aren't pushing away our stresses, it's just piling other's on top. This is pretty much everything I've been thinking but didn't know how to say, or was too afraid to say. Thanks Shad. So...I've been thinking about putting up a video explaining this. Not one like Nic's (which was helpful for explaining what she thought ^^) on Minecraft, but my actual face. I know, I know, sounds silly. but it might help you guys see my point.
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Post by Shad on Nov 13, 2013 11:48:47 GMT -5
whOA SEEING TOBY SPEAK :OOOOO CHRISTMAS COME EARLY
jkjk xD
and you're welcome, Toberz. You mentioned you thought you sounded harsh so I thought I might try and clear up the reasoning.
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Post by Fading Dawn on Nov 13, 2013 13:28:56 GMT -5
that made me laugh so hard You know what I look like and what I sound like. Just need to put them together :b wait a second youre the only one who's seen my face arent you :O
Well thank you again for doing that //hug//
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Post by Fading Dawn on Nov 13, 2013 13:37:06 GMT -5
I want to do a video because it's hard to read tone of voice through the internet. Sarcasm can be taken as being mean, being honest can be taken as being rude, et cetera. It's waaaaay easier to read someone's thoughts and emotions through tone of voice and facial expressions.
plus you get to see my face for the first time like ever wooooo
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Post by Assassin Nico on Nov 13, 2013 13:39:55 GMT -5
Then make the video. I look forward to watching it.
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Post by Shad on Nov 13, 2013 13:47:43 GMT -5
DO IT TOBY DO IT //pressures//
Although you could probably just do it over skype :p and I think you briefly posted a pic of yourself on the skype group but not for very long technically Peaceful too over facebook xD
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Post by Assassin Nico on Nov 13, 2013 13:49:21 GMT -5
Nic. Are you kidding? How many times have I told you guys that I love you all? OF COURSE I CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION. I've got NO idea who Justin is or what he did. That's why I used short replies. And Quies and Eises and I pointed out that Mari is most certainly NOT part of the "cussing group." We said that quite a few times. Sorry for insulting you guys, but I'm not compromising my position. We need to clean up the Skype chat a bit and make it fun for all of us. So basically, in the end, have to side with Toby here (and this isn't just me blindly defending my forum sis, honestly agree). i thought she made it very clear that she still values you guys' opinions, but it seemed to her (and me) you guys weren't listening to her's, so yeah, she was starting to get offended. And I know she hated having to yell at you guys, but she honestly felt like she had no other choice. You must see that from her perspective, she has asked several times in the past (and I mean months ago, not a couple weeks or something) nicely but it seemed to her you guys were just ignoring. Anyways, what 'm trying to get at here, is that you need to see this from Toby's perspective. To her, she asked nicely several times, nobody seemed to listen, and she was tired of having to avoid her own skype chat because of it, and she finally decided she needed to put her foot down. You do have to remember, at the end of the day it IS her chat room. Toby loves us all, and that's the problem: she saw a lot of people not being able to have fun at the skype chat anymore, and so she was standing up for them. That's all she was doing. Yes, Mari, I'm not sure why you keep thinking you're in trouble...the only thing we labeled you as was a frequent skyper, but that doesn't mean we thought you were trouble. ^^ Look, what Toby is trying to say here is that the chat needs to be fun for EVERYONE, and not just centered around people who need to vent and rant through cussing. The key word is EVERYONE. And I think that's what bit us the most, was that you guys didn't seem to be even thinking about how your behavior might affect others. You just need to remember that a LOT of us don't enjoy hearing buckets of profanity or reading m-rated discussions, or pretty constant ranting. I know it may not seem like you guys cuss/rant a lot, but lurk a LOT on the skype calls, and, well...from an outsider's perspective, I think you guys do it a lot more than you might think. We're not saying you can't vent/cuss at ALL. Letting off real-life steam every once and awhile is fine, and occasional, milkd cussing is tolerated. But constant ranting, and hearing the f-word a lot, gets very tiresome. You get where I'm coming from? Bottom line is, the skype chat/boards were NEVER meant to be a therapists office, but that's what they've become. I get a lot of you are going through a hard time, but...I'll just say this bluntly, and I don't mean offense, but you're kind of impressing it upon the rest of us...most of us come on these places to get AWAY from stress, not hear people complain/vent their own troubles. As I said, we don't mind occasionally lending a shoulder to cry on or lending an ear, but it just get tiresome after constant, and after awhile, these places aren't pushing away our stresses, it's just piling other's on top. I know, I understand. I understand that you guys are looking out for the good of the whole chat while I am looking to protect the couple owlz that are going through tough times. Maybe because I can relate to how they feel? I don't know. A new chat was made on Skype for profanity, depressing topics, and just innapropriate stuff in general so that the main chat won't be recieving anymore unnessecary swearing and stuff. I have also asked those Owlz to try and keep these topics away from the boards, unless they are PMing each other.
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